Our first babe was a baldy. Well, that's not entirely true... she had a severe old man thing happening where she only had hair around the bottom 1" of her head, but it was blonde so nearly invisible.
Our second babe was born with as much hair as Chloe acquired over the first 9 months of her life. What a surprise when she made her entrance! (I was already in shock throughout labor because of the intensity and speed of everything, but when the doctor pulled her out, my initial thought was "Whose baby is that?" because of how different she looked that Chloe)
I used to think about how sweet it would be to have a baby with hair who could wear hair clips, or a little pigtail. I used to!
Some things that never crossed my mind until having to deal with newborn hair
- Tangles. Yes, at less than 1 month old, she had tangles in the back of her hair. And when I tried to oh so gently comb them out, it pulled out her hair and I about died.
- The bald spot. All babies get them, its just what happens. But with a head full of dark hair, this is what stands out:
- Cradle cap. I'm fairly sure that almost all babies experience this as well. Chloe had it when she was a few months old, and now Aria does.
Dealing with cradle cap is fairly easy. It doesn't hurt the baby at all, it's dry skin (although it looks FAR worse and makes any new mom lose their ----). A nurse friend of my suggested rubbing a small amount of baby oil onto Chloe's head before her bath and, low and behold, it was gone after 2-3 treatments. So when I noticed Aria's (which wasn't as obvious through her hair), I gave myself a mental thumbs-up and went to grab the baby oil and comb.
It was not a happy ending though! It was so much worse than I could have expected. It did it's job of loosening the dead skin, which then began to "float" around her hair for days and days, even after multiple shampooings. Luckily her 4 month appointment was a short week away and after a quick conversation with her pediatrician I learned: Do not use baby oil and try to comb out on a baby with hair. Her sad story ended with her own daughter losing all of her hair from being pulled out with the comb. I was experiencing this the first day when I was attempting to pull out the dead skin with the comb - the comb with pull the flake, and with it would come the hair! I left her little head alone after hearing her personal experience but it still bothered me looking at it (I know it doesn't hurt her, but it looks like it should).
A few days ago, we tried something different. Head&Shoulders shampoo. It works with flakes on adults, maybe on babies too? Totally did! After living with huge flakes laying throughout her hair for nearly a month, no more flakes!
Underneath, she still has cradle cap, but it makes me feel better not having the urge to pick out pieces and risk pulling out her hair. Now I just have to force myself to be patient - it will clear up itself.
*When using anything other than baby shampoo, be extra cautious of shampoo getting into eyes. 4 hands comes in handy when dealing with a wiggly baby and a stingy shampoo.
How did/do you deal with cradle cap?